What Does Self Love Truly Mean?
Self-Love is much bigger than one usually realises.
To start with – what is self?
If science and the universe tells us that everything in existence is made of energy, and all energy is a part of the one whole, then we are a part of everything.
If this is true then really everything you can percieve or see is actually a part of you. So getting back to self love, to truly love yourself, requires loving everything you see or perceive.
Now I am sure by now you have come to realise everything you seek as a human being – love, happiness, contentment, abundance etc all come from, and are driven by your internal energy flow and makeup. When your internal energy consists of loving truthful energy, you experience more of this in your external reality.
If you are giving attention to the energy of love and truth they will become more real in your life.
The statement – “what you give attention to becomes real” is so true. In fact, just by observing what turns up in your day is a clear indicator of what you have been giving energy and attention to yesterday, last week, last month.
What is real in your life is what you have created through your attention. Your experiences that turn up are just a validation of your attention.
To experience Self-love, give it attention. By looking for ways to love the whole of you (everything you perceive & see) you naturally love and value you more. By giving love more attention you change your internal energy more into its quality, and love will turn up more in your day-to-day life.
But please watch for the subtle trap in this – if your perception is on the lack of love , then where is your attention? A loveless life becomes more real.