Making Love to Yourself

Making love to yourself

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Being in love with your being is a very powerful and transitional experience. All negative experiences within your life are generated from non-truth which is unloving.

When we are loving, we are in truth.

Love really is the highest and most purest form of divine truth and will always bring positive outcome.

That is love without restriction, resistance, and or attachment. True love has none of these things. If your love has attachment, it is not love – it is mind-made love, and only goes to support non-truthful value issues and a need for validation.

Okay, I want to teach you a very simple practice that I suggest you do every morning upon arising. But before I do that, let’s set some understanding of divine unfoldment and why there is a good reason to love yourself continually.

I believe we are all souls existing within a human body for the sole purpose of allowing our souls to have direct experience of experiences that are able to be manifested in this world.

Why do souls want to do this?

Because direct experience expands the soul’s consciousness, bringing closer to a vibrational match to home – God.

I also believe that the journey our souls have and is taking is in accordance to divine plan.  Everything is unfolding in divine perfection – there are no mistakes.

All of this tells me that every experience I become aware of is having a positive impact and purpose for my soul and is never wrong. There is no need to make judgement of what I become aware of except this is what my soul wants, which is something to be joyful about.

Knowing my soul wants this experience, I put up no resistance to it. After all, why would I want to deprive my soul of something that has a positive impact on it – that would be unloving to my soul wouldn’t it. My soul being who I really am, I am in fact being unloving to my purest form.

Let’s apply this to the physical body.

Do you suffer from aches and pains in your body?

Do you have an illness?

Do you percieve something wrong with your body?

Are you making self-judgement you are not good enough?

Generally speaking for most people, we would naturally make judgment it is wrong, and move into resistance, or control of these things. This inadvertently empowers the very thing you have judged as wrong. This can only increase the likelihood of it getting stronger in your life.

Going back now to knowing every experience I become aware of is right for what my soul wants. Moving into allowance with whatever appears in my world aligns me to the truth of my soul’s purpose. When I see and know all is well and there is no need to resist or make change and struggle with it. When I see this is not wrong, I move into harmony, and more importantly into truth with it.

The experience now moves me to a place of positive emotion, as all truth is positive. When I know my life is always right and in accordance with divine plan, and know it is always perfect with no flaws, I allow all experiences to be there regardless of my mind’s beliefs based on past conditioning.

Dont attempt to change your experiences, as this only empowers non-truth and will pull you into a dark and unhappy place. Be joyful your soul is expanding as a result of this experience – be happy. Feel love for this experience in your life. This experience is fulfilling your soul’s desires – we are so blessed that this is achieving this positive outcome.

Okay now I have painted a little of the picture, let’s now look and making love to yourself.

As I mentioned earlier in this article I highly recommend you do this practice every morning upon awaking. I do it while still in bed.

Start with any area within your body that feels negative – a sore shoulder, pain in the back etc. Do your best to open yourself up to fully experience this pain. What does this pain actually feel like? Yes it hurts but do your best to perceive it on a much deeper and more direct way. So when you feel pain what are you feeling? Is the muscle in that area tight? Is it just in the local area, or does it extend further?

Do your best to fully experience what is there. Be conscious of all of it. Once you have a deeper awareness of it, validate in your mind that what you are now aware of is exactly the experience your soul wants. There is no need to judge it, change it, or resist it.  Feel love for it, knowing you are fulfilling your soul’s desires and true purpose. be in allowance and fully open up to it with love.

If it is a negative experience, and in this case it is a pain so most definitely is a non-truth, you will find it will positively change. Why? Because  once you know the truth of why you are having the experience – to expand your soul’s consciousness, you naturally move into the frequency of truth. Empowered with this truth you cease to judge it, and lose the desire to change it – you allow, knowing all is in accordance to the divine and your soul’s wishes.

Once again all truth is positive. Also all truth is love in its purest form. Allowance is the unfoldment of love. When you are in allowance of all experience and not make negative judgment of them, you are truly loving yourself.

Try doing this observation of truth through your whole body. Be conscious and mindful of what is really going on with your body. Allow what you become aware of  with love. Love all of what you become aware of, knowing its your soul’s desire to experience this.

Be in love with your soul and its wishes, and all of the body’s experiences.

Love yourself, don’t make judgement – allow and watch your life and all of its experiences  unfold with joy, contentment, and freedom.

This is true self-love!

Make love to yourself today!!


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About trevorg888

Trevor Gollagher has over 35 years experience as a spiritual teacher, mentor and visionary. As an author, he has published 17 books, numerous workbooks, DVD’s and assorted media. The founder of the Heart Resonance energy system , his message is simple but very deep and powerful. He believes that everything we desire as humans is obtainable from within ourselves, if only we get out of our own way and allow our divineness to arise. Visit his website to learn about more ways Trevor can help you achieve a higher level of happiness and spiritual consciousness.
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